On October 3, 2012 Jennifer Livingston, an anchorwoman at WKBT-TV in La Crosse, Wisconsin took a stand against bullying. On air Jennifer spoke up about negative email comments made about her weight. She pointed out that the person who made these comments did not know her and admitted to not watching her show regularly, but felt free to judge her simply based on her looks. Jennifer also pointed out that no one had the right to treat her this way. Finally she drew the connection from her situation to the reality for too many children Their reality is that in school or on the playground they are bullied based on the way they look, the way the dress, or because they have a disability.
Jennifer Livingston reminds us that stopping bullying is everyone’s responsibility. No one knows this more than NEA’s Education Support Professionals (ESPs )…with over 98% saying they believe it is their job to help stop bullying. ESPs report that they are often the first adult a student will talk to about being bullied. They build trusting relationships with students on the bus, in the cafeteria, in the hallway, and on the playground. (More bullying related results from the 2010 NEA ESP survey can be found here.)
October is Bullying Prevention Month. It is a time for all of us to think about what we can do to stop bullying. The NEA Bully Free: It Starts with Me campaign calls on all educators to take the pledge and help to stop bullying. The Bully Free toolkit can be downloaded here.
How will you help stop bullying?
October marked the beginning of Bullying Prevention Month. Most students and educators are well aware of the effects of bullying at school and at home. NEA HIN supports this initiative started by the PACER Center which focuses on bullying prevention through community outreach.
They offer a number of resources and events that can be implemented. NEA HIN has joined the NEA in Bully Free: It Starts With Me Initiative, NEA challenges all of us to take the pledge and take a stand against bullying. As adults, we can make a world of difference in a child's life. The initiative offers many helpful resources to everyone, including those who bully.
It's that time of year when many students are preparing to make a mad dash out of the school building and jump right into summer! Summer is the time of year when most tweens have more time on their hands than usual and resorting to technology is not uncommon. Since June is Internet safety month, why not help prepare them for summer safety with the following Internet safety tips:
- Remember to communicate! Developing a trusting relationship with your tween is key!
- Good digital citizenship means being responsible and using online resources.
- Make use of the parental controls online.
- It's ok to ask your tween for their passwords and maintain access to their accounts.
- Check the history on their computer.
- If you feel they are viewing inappropriate sites, calmly talk to them about it.
- Become familiar with the websites they visit, have them show you what Twitter looks like.
- Spend some time with your tween as the surf the Internet.
- Inquire about what privacy settings and firewalls are installed at your tween's school.
- As always, remind them that the Internet can be harmful but it's still a good resource when used properly.
If you are planning on attending the 2012 NEA ESP Conference next week, we can't wait to see you. NEA HIN is pleased to once again be joining Education Support Professionals from around the country. We are looking forward to seeing many friends from past conferences and meeting new ones. As in the past, we will be in the exhibit area with resources and materials to help ESPs create safe, healthy, great public schools for all.
NEA HIN staff will also be presenting two workshops as part of the Skill-Based Learning Professional Development Track. On Saturday afternoon at 2:45 pm Lisa Creighton will be presenting Healthy Kids Learn Better: Why and How to Improve School Food. Making sure that kids have access to healthy, wholesome foods at school can impact both health and behavior. This highly interactive session will focus on the importance of nutrition for child health, programs to improve access to school meals (such as breakfast in the classroom) and the quality of school food (such as farm-to-school). The session will also cover some of the things being done at the local, state, and federal level to improve school food. The session will focus on the ways that ESPs can help students, while building strong community partnerships.
On Sunday morning at 8:15 am, NEA HIN Executive Director Jerry Newberry will present, School Security Officers:Making a Difference for At-Risk Students. Participants in this session will address the critical role of the school security officer in support of at-risk students. Through discussion and activities, participants will address the needs of at-risk students and discuss the unique challenges of the students they work with. The session will focus on building bridges with families and community resources to support student success.
We hope to see you at the conference and copies of the presentations will be available on our website after the conference.
I remember the first time I used a computer. I was working as the Development Director at Central Piedmont Community College in Charlotte, NC and it was the mid-eighties. I was writing grant proposals on my beloved yellow pads, and the grants were getting funded. That was, after all, what I had been hired to do. Write proposals and get them funded. So when the VP to whom I reported equipped the office with computers and said he wanted me to use one in my writing, I declined. I told him that I wrote best using a yellow pad. He told me again that he wanted me to try using the computer. Again, I declined. Finally, he explained that he was my boss and he wanted me to use the computer, and, finally, I got it. So I tried, and after a week or so, I couldn't imagine writing any other way. Bye, bye yellow pad.
Well, my computer skills have never been that great, and I am still very nervous about using technology. So, when the Kindle was introduced, I had absolutely no interest in replacing my beloved books with such a thing. In fact, I have only touched one a time or two--it's rather like the tabloid newspapers in the checkout line at the grocery store. I feel OK about reading the headlines while I am waiting, but I never pick one up. It feels like something unpleasant will happen if I do. I know--weird.
So, when my husband asked if I would like a Kindle (or one of its relations) for a holiday gift, I declined. "I must touch a book and turn its pages," I explained. And I knew that many people felt that way--including my kid sister, Susan. (Doesn't matter how old we get, she will still be my kid sister.) She and I share a love of reading, and often are reading the same book at the same time without realizing it. Or she will have just finished one as I start it, and we can share some great conversations about our favorite fictional characters. So, imagine how shocked I was when she told me yesterday that she asked for a Kindle for Christmas. "It will never be the same," I thought. She then started to explain how long the wait is to get books for the Kindle from her library. Apparently, there are an awful lot of people using these things, and she is becoming one of them. Now, I'm wondering....
Kids are so tech-savvy that it is awesome. They seem to find using technology as easy as breathing. One of the things that this level of sophistication can bring, though, is vulnerability to people who don't have the kids' best interests at heart. In response to that challenge, NEA HIN has been offering a wonderful website for parents and educators in order to help them keep kids safer on line. The site is called bNetSavvy and I do commend it to your attention. If you have afew minutes over the holidays, please check it out. I think you will be glad you did.
So, that's it for now. Once again, happy holidays to all. And I'll let you know if I ever change my mind about the Kindle.
Recently, Pew Research Center’s Internet & American Life Project came out with a report about the types of experiences teens are having online and how they are addressing negative behavior they see or experience. In this report, Pew Internet tries to navigate an important question concerning what makes a good or bad “digital citizen” in an increasingly technology-based world. According to the report, 95% of all teens ages 12-17 are now online and 80% of those online teens are users of social media sites.
Other findings include that the majority of social media-using teens say their peers are mostly kind to one another online, as opposed to social media-using adults whose views were less positive. Overall, 88% of teens who use social media have witnessed other people being mean or cruel on social media sites, while 69% of adults using social media witnessed cruel or mean behavior. With these high numbers, I feel our society could benefit from an Internet “time out” for users who misbehave online.
However, what is most fascinating about the statistics above is that of the 88% of teens and 69% of adults who witnessed mean behavior online, the majority of them ignore it! A majority of teens say their own reaction has been to ignore mean behavior that they see online. This issue of standing around and not taking action when someone is being teased or bullied needs to be addressed, especially when it is happening online. Teens need to feel empowered to do the right thing and be encouraged to not be bystanders. They need strong role models to look up to on how to act and trust that they have someone reliable to turn to when someone is being bullyed or cyberbullyed.
The Pew Internet report noted that teens need more guidance from parents, educators, and their peers about online behaviors and coping with challenging experiences. 95% of social media-using teens who have witnessed cruel behavior online have seen others ignore it. However, 84% of social media-using teens stated that they have also seen people defend the person being harassed and tell someone to stop. Despite the high likelihood of teens seeing bystanders responding positively by standing up for or defending the attacked individual, they are also likely to witness others joining in on the mean behavior.
This report drew attention to the fact that most teens depend a great deal on parents and peers for advice about online behaviors and coping with challenging experiences. 86% of online and cell phone using-teens say that they have received general advice about how to use the Internet responsibly and safely from their parents. 70% of online and cell phone using-teens say that they have gotten advice about internet safety from teachers or another adult at school. These statistics are high considering the number of teens who receive information about Internet safety but a notable number of teens still engage in online practices that may have the potential to compromise their safety online. Parents and educators need better guidance and information to know how to talk to and protect teens from online predators and cyberbullying.
The findings from this Pew Internet report are important to our work in empowering school professionals with the right information about health and safety issues. This report was presented at FOSI’s (Family Online Safety Institute) 2011 annual conference held in Washington, D.C., and was entitled “Strategies for Safe and Healthy Online Use.”
bNetS@vvy, a project of NEA HIN, is a comprehensive Internet safety website that provides tools for adults to help kids connect safely online. Recently, bNetS@vvy launched a brand new website that strives to help tweens better understand the risks and benefits associated with the Internet and educates guardians and educators about the power of Internet use. The website offers useful tools exploring the issues that confront families and educators, including topics like cyberbullying, sexting, consumer privacy, and social networking. Because it is written by experts, educators, parents, and kids, the information on bNetS@vvy provides multiple perspectives on very important issues.
Read the Pew Internet report, ask your child or students if they have ever witnessed mean or cruel behavior online and how they responded, and check out bNetS@vvy for practical tools and tips about how to be a good “digital citizen”.
For a summary of the Pew Internet report click here.
Since its inception, bNetS@vvy has been helping tweens better understand the risks and benefits associated with the Internet and educating guardians and educators regarding the power of Internet use. Now bNetS@vvy is proud to announce their new and improved website. This new website features Internet safety articles, access to become a guest blogger, and an “Ask the Expert” section.
Schools and educators need to know how to keep kids smart and safe when they are online. bNetS@vvy is a one-stop shop that offers tools exploring the issues that confront families and educators around topics like cyberbullying, sexting, consumer privacy, and social networking. Because it is written by experts, educators, parents, and kids the information on bNetS@vvy provides multiple perspectives on very important issues.
bNetS@vvy is a program run through NEA HIN and Sprint’s 4NetSafety program. Program Coordinator Jamila Boddie has been working with NEA HIN and its members for over five years, with the last two years focusing solely on online safety. Jamila has experience with the issue of Internet safety from a parental point of view and through her encounters and trainings with educators, parents, and students about the ways they view and use the Internet. Jamila believes that “communication is essential to ensure safe and smart Internet behaviors.”
Get involved with Internet safety in your community, ask questions, share your story, tell us what you think of the new website and above all don’t stop the conversation around Internet safety!
In partnership with the Be A STAR Anti-bullying Campaign, the National Education Association Health Information Network is proud to introduce a new complimentary teaching resources for educators. The compelling new film, That's What I Am, touches on the problem of bullying in schools and communities. Staring Academy Award-nominated actor Ed Harris, the film presents a moving and thought provoking exploration of the ways that bullying can impact people of all ages. It also shows the courage of students and educators in the face of bullying.
The instructional activities presented in this resource guide help teach middle school students about bullying and cyberbullying, the pillars of good character, and social equality. Through self-reflection about the positive examples of moral character represented in the movie, students can begin to develop the skills and tools to prevent bullying, to not be a bystander. The program features:
- Free downloadable clips from That's What I Am for classroom use
- Free Educational Resource Guide with film synopsis, classroom lessons, and resource section
- Nine cross-references learning themes with instructions activities and student activity sheets
- That's What I Am reflective journal
- Suggested inter-disciplinary anti-bullying framework
- Tied to national education standards in Language Arts, Social Studies, and Health
- Suggested for grades 6-8
To access the Educational Resource Guide visit Be a STAR. To take a stand against bullying visit the NEA's campaign, Bully Free: It Starts With Me. More resource on cyberbullying and digital safety can be found at bNet@vvy.org