Managing benchmark dates

  Certain dates can trigger reactions of grief, loss, helplessness and hopelessness. Be prepared to offer extra mental health support to students and staff on anniversary dates. For example:

• Six-month anniversary may bring unexpected reactions. Teachers and students who have not had time to grieve may have feelings bubble up at this time.
• First day of new school year can be an important benchmark in the healing process. Students and staff have been gone all summer, and re-entering school may trigger an emotional response.
• Graduations can be a major struggle, especially if a victim was scheduled to graduate. Make sure the tragedy doesn’t define graduation, which should be a time of pride and reflection on accomplishments.

 

• First anniversary of the crisis is a critical time. Involve staff, students and victims’ families in planning events and activities to mark the one-year anniversary of the crisis. The plan should include media protocols. Click here for information on planning for the first anniversary.